"I want this one moment. It’s - it’s what I want in a relationship… which might explain why I am single now. Ha, ha. It’s, uh - It’s kind of hard to - it’s that thing when you’re with someone… and you love them and they know it… and they love you and you know it… but it’s a party… and you’re both talking to other people… and you’re laughing and shining… and you look across the room… and catch each other’s eyes… but - but not because you’re possessive… or it’s precisely sexual… but because… that is your person in this life. And it’s funny and sad, but only because this life will end, and it’s this secret world… that exists right there… in public, unnoticed, that no one else knows about. It’s sort of like how they say that other dimensions exist all around us, but we don’t have the ability to perceive them. That’s - That’s what I want out of a relationship. Or just life, I guess. Love. — I sound stoned. I’m not stoned. — Thanks for dinner. Bye.”
Frances Ha (2012)
dir: Noah Baumbach
We – all of us – love to feel like we’re in control. We desperately want to know what’s coming and how things will play out and whether or not we’re making the “right” decisions. We meticulously plot our to-do lists and we try to follow our best laid plans.
But, in the end, I think it all comes down to trust. Trust that if we just keep moving forward, if we explore the things that make us feel most curious and alive, if we keep doing one thing after another, we’ll land exactly where we’re meant to be.
-Life Less Bullshit (http://tinyurl.com/k78s9za)
oh god. all of this. so hard.